The word relationship scares many men. It probably scares many women too - but not me. I find comfort there. When I'm in a relationship, the little things bring joy. I hear the sound of her voice... I feel her touch... and I find comfort there.
I've never understood people who fear a good thing when they find one.
I helped a friend get the job of a lifetime. What does he do? He calls me up to say "Rob, I don't know if I can do this. I think I'm gonna have to quit." But they were thrilled with him and his work! What was the problem? FEAR.
I've seen women do the same thing on a date - with me. I learned a long time ago that if I'm too much fun on a first date, there probably won't be a second. Women would be scared off by the slightest hint of a romantic. I've had women tell me "I don't know if I'm ready for a relationship." REALY? Isn't this the same woman who said "I miss having someone to hold me... I miss having someone to wake up next to... I miss having someone to be romantic with... I miss having someone there when I'm sad."
I remember telling a female friend about a really bad date once and she stopped me dead in my tracks. "Listen Rob - one man's psycho is another man's princess - and don't you forget it." She was right. But then again, she too was another man's princess.